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Don't make any decision when being angry

Don't make any decision when being angry
There is a man, his wife has had difficult labour very much while giving birth to the child. Fortunately, there is a bright and capable dog, bearing the heavy burden of looking after the baby naturally at his home. One day, the man has things to go out, come back very late. The dog knows the host has come back, the cheerful one is come out to meet. But the man sees dog's mouth is filled with the blood, a kind of ominous premonition is swarmed in mind immediately, think whether this dog has eaten the child because of hungry brutish nature outbreak. Then he make dash for by the bed seeing suddenly at once, there were not people, only saw a group of bloodstains. Man when being furious, pick up rod beat these dog to death. Who knows just in at this time, child cry under bed climbing, coming out, man this does not know oneself wronglied blame dogs, four look over, find, lie one wolf, live, live, kill, watch that dog already nearby, the back leg has already been scratched seriously. When the man went out originally, a wolf slipped away to want to eat the child secretly, dog's brave rushing forward and wrestling with the wolf greatly, has kept the child's life finally. The man knows after the truth, cry loudly and wail, repent endlessly, but everything has been already unable to gain.

Why will such a tragedy take place? That is because he is washed routed reason by strong anger, ignore the most basic judgement and step of verification. In fact this is the people's common fault too. According to the calculating of the psychologist, people are when being angry, the IQ is the lowest. In angry a moment, people will make stupid decision but opinionated very, can make dangerous act but righteously indignant very too. Decisions made at this time, more than 90% are all extreme mistakes.

In fact, a lot of people are quilts " The air for the moment " And forfeit all one's life's. The far one drowns oneself in a river and commits suicide in a fury like Qu Yuan; It is near if the horse adds the rank of nobility, kill four people in succession in a fury. This is an extreme example. Resign, on Tao Yuanming, resign all living things that do not be in a fury in a fury, it is very stiff act even more. So, there is such a sincere advice - -Don't make any decision when being angry.

Almost all the are repentant after prison prisoner say; Almost all the behavior case has made an unwisely decision to happen when being angry; Nearly all criminals have said while giving an interview: " If at that time . " In fact, most people kindhearted at the essence, so-called " Man was born kind " Really devilish, there are few people taking committing murder and arson as pleasure. Whether speaking from the this meaning, there could be reason when angry, will influence people's life fundamentally.

People perceptual animal, live in love hating feeling hatred interweaving, and among constant choice in life, it is irrelevant to choose a bit, choose a bit but concern the overall situation; Some faults can be done the best to remedy, but some are unable to save the situation. Making the thing of the wrong decision because of being angry, everybody has happened on one's body. If you are not injured by that wrong decision, that should be happy, but might not luckily show appreciation for forever. Want, hold one's own life enable bias track it, please remember the sincere advice - -Don't make any decision when being angry!
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by fashiongirl | 2009-12-02 16:25

Host doing manual labour

Host doing manual labour
One day, the philosopher led all disciples to walk on the downtown streets, the whole downtown streets were bustling with vehicles, peddling the sound can be heard without end, a glorious scene.

After going out of part of the way, the philosopher asks the disciple: "Among the retailers that saw just now, which one wear happy color? " A disciple answers: "I pass four that fish, the people who buy the fish are numerous, the owner has more visitors or business than one can attend to, the face has been permeated with the smile all the time. " The disciple's words have not been finished yet, the philosopher shakes the head, say: "Heart although happiness of desire for gain, can be lasting. "

The philosopher leads all disciples to continue it forward, in the front is a block of farm houses, the chicken rings the mulberry tree, the dog calls the deep lane, the person in twos and threes shuttles back and forth busily. The philosopher sends all disciples and scatters in all directions and leaves. After after a while, the philosopher asks the disciple again: "Among the villagers that saw just now, which one seem more substantial? "

A disciple has the first step, answer: "There is a villager with black face in the east of the village, the family is raising chiken's and duck's oxen and horses, there is ground of several 0.667 hectares on the slope, he finish thing of family, reach slope wait upon, get field again, one either unoccupied in quarter, streaming with sweat all the time, this villager should be substantial. " The philosopher hesitates for a moment slightly, say: "Come from a trifling one substantial, want, lose when being trifling after all finally, no most substantial. "

A group traveling together continue it forward, in the front is a hillside, on the slope is the flocks of sheep like the cloud. On a huge stone, one sits to describe the withered old person, have a whip in arms, overlooking to the distant place. The philosopher stopped the step of all disciples immediately, said: "This old person visits the eye gives free rein to thoughts and feelings, it is a host of the life. " All disciples see eye to eye, think, an old man putting sheep out to pasture, it is too lonely to depend on perhaps, there is not the basic necessities of life, how could be the host of the life? The philosopher has seen the puzzled disciple, bright sound channel: "Can not you think his soul is taking a walk happily? " RELATED LINKS:
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by fashiongirl | 2009-12-02 16:24


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